March 2013

Gentleness and Couples Therapy

On being gentle with yourself and partner when trying new strategies in therapy or in life.

Some couples we see coming to therapy have been under siege. If we use the metaphor of the couple relationship as the “third”, an entity with its own life (along with the two individuals), then that third element becomes debilitated if it suffers repeated attacks, as do the individuals themselves. This is why we say […] Read More