September 2011

The Golden Rules of Relationships

Three Golden Rules in a relationship; Feel your feelings, Tell the truth and Keep your commitments.

Let’s Talk About the Rules Let’s talk about the Golden Rules of Relationships. These are the “make or break” rules for increasing intimacy. We either embrace them, or the relationship stagnates (or worse). So here they are. Feel Your Feelings Feel your feelings is about checking in with ourselves, finding out what is really going […] Read More

Talking is Dangerous

Conflict can improve your relationship if you learn the rules of good communication.

Talking Can be Dangerous The theme of this post comes from After the Honeymoon: How Conflict Can Improve Your Relationship, a book which, among other things, investigates how conflict can be transformed to improve relationships. Daniel Wile starts with some basic, important rules about talking in couple relationships, which we’ve summarised below. Rules for Good […] Read More