Resources for Couples Counselling & Therapy

About This Page

This page brings together a selection from our full set of resources. The selection shown here is relevant to Couples Counselling and Therapy.

Contents

About Relationship Beakdown

Are You Sure It’s Over?
The Life of The Relationship.
Relationship Breakdown and Closure.
Relationship Breakdown and Children.

The Adult Attachment Model

What is Adult Attachment Theory?
Islands and Waves.
An Example – in Action.

A Bowen Approach Primer

The Eight Bowen Concepts.

Couples and Neurobiology

Conscious Partnership.
The Goal of a Couple Relationship.
Developing New Neural Pathways.

Co-Therapy for Couples

The Co-Therapy Model – Both Therapists in the Room.
Benefits.
Your Relationship as a Container.

Mediation Therapy for Couples and Families

What is It?
How is It Different from Normal Therapy?
What Mediation Therapy is Not.

Online & Phone Counselling and Therapy

For Busy People.
…or Geographically Distant.

Reflective Listening

Couple Arguments.
What happens in Bad Communication.
How to Do Reflective Listening.

Relationship Counselling

Gaining relief from the complexities of interacting with others, the difficulties of forming and maintaining relationships, and conflict resolution.
Personal work around relationships with partners, potential partners, spouses, children, work colleagues or friends.
Pre-marital and pre-commitment therapy.
Working with people in recovery from broken relationships, and during the course of a relationship breakdown.

Security Questions

Is this a practical question or a Security question?
The benefits of understanding which is which.
This blog post discusses an issue particularly important to those of an overtly anxious attachment type.

Sexual and Sensual Intimacy Program

What is SIP?
Looking at the Blocks to Intimacy.

Staemmler’s Schemes: Meanings & Behaviours

How Interactions Trigger Couple Members.
Meanings Informed by Many Factors.
Working with the Model.

Three Simple Sentences

How We Argue.
Stopping the Arguments!

Twelve Timeless Tips for Revitalising Your Relationship

Try these 12 Simple Tips in your own relationship.
Tested by and on the Authors 🙂

Wabi Sabi and Relationship Counselling

What is Wabi Sabi?
The Wabi Sabi Approach to Relationships.

What is a Relational Counsellor?

The idea of the Relational.
What Makes a Good Relational Counsellor?

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